You are My Person
Have you heard about the concept of being someone’s person? Like Christina Yang and Meredith Grey of Grey’s Anatomy? If you haven’t heard of it then you should read this because you never know when you’ll meet your person. Having your person is not just having a best friend, they are more than that. They are family to you, at times they’ll even act like your significant other and if needed, they’ll be your worst enemy. Even if it seems confusing and complicated, when you find your person, you know that you’ll always have them no matter what. Here are some reasons why you need to have your own person.
You can say anything you want and they won’t judge you. If you want to rant about how annoying your partner is, they will hear you out. You want to shout because you’re extremely happy with the results of your exam, they will shout you. When you have your person with you, the scopes of your conversation have no boundaries. Everything you say is valid and truthful.
They know what you feel even if you don’t say or do anything. They feel it with the way you scratch your head, the tone of your voice and the way you look at them. Your person will always know what to say and do when you feel good or bad. You don’t even have to give them a clue; they just do it because they know best.
They aren’t afraid to speak the truth, even if it means hurting your feelings. Often times, our friends are too afraid to tell the truth about us. They fear that what they might say can hurt our emotions. Our person is a different one, they are tactless and may come out rude but they are very honest. They say the things you don’t want to hear but you need to. This person never fears saying the right thing because they want the best for us.
You can either be crazy or dead silent with them, and it won’t even matter. If you feel like going out on a wild Friday night, you can call them and they’ll be there to join you in your adventure. If you want to just lie on the floor, listen to sad and depressing music and contemplate on life, they will lay down with you. Nothing feels awkward and tiring whenever you are with them because what matters most is that you are together.
You fight like sisters and brothers, arguing over the real life decisions you have to make. This person cares the most about you. They want you to see every possible outcome of a decision by being open to the things that they see and you don’t. They will be there to support you in any decision you make but they will also be the first one to tell you “I told you so…” if things go wrong. Despite that, they will never leave your side.
They sometimes act like your partner. They ask about your day, what you did, how you felt doing something, what you ate and many more. They are going to be clingy and talkative but that’s because they love you that much.
This person is your other half in a platonic manner. You see them as your twin brother or sister because despite the differences and misunderstandings, they are the one who stays with you at the end of the day.
Lastly, they know you better than you know yourself. You may not know it but they have memorized the meaning behind every movement you do, and you will never be aware of it. All the dark corners inside of you, the scars and secrets that you have, they know it and they love you even after that. Nothing you do is going to make them stop caring and loving you. They are not your partner, not a family member and not just a friend, they are your person and you are theirs.
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